21 things you only know if you’re bipolar
18. Sometimes you’re a shopping liability
You’ve gone over your overdraft more times than you can remember buying things you don’t even want during a manic phase. During mania or hypomania your brain makes weird connections and all of a sudden it makes perfect sense to buy a set of golf clubs when you haven’t played a day in your life.
19. Alcohol is usually best avoided
Alcohol is a depressant. Adding this in to your natural brain chemistry and mood stabilisers isn’t fun the morning after. Normal hangovers are bad enough – yours are worse than a coke come-down and often leave you a weeping, morose mess.
20. Relationships can be hard
I once dumped the man I loved during a manic phase and we never recovered. Not everyone can face mental illness, but then relationships can be challenging for everyone, in all kinds of ways. A friend who is also bipolar has been married for years, which gives me hope.
21. You are stronger than you know
Sometimes getting through another day is a huge achievement. Don’t give up.